Chris Brown Needs to Fall Back & Stay Out the Spotlight for a While

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Chris Brown needs to fall back for a while and take more time before returning to the spotlight
Chris Brown needs to fall back for a while and take more time before returning to the spotlight

Its sad that we live in a day and time where common sense is always trumped by the need to make a quick buck. Don’t get me wrong, I am by no means suggesting that Chris Brown is trying to make a quick buck, but I have to agree with the folks who are calling for Chris to fall back, take a breath and get some help. His seeming eagerness to return to the fold and repair his image seems to defy common sense.

 Should he be the poster child for domestic violence? Of course not, but like it or not he is… And just like he’s was able to rise to the occasion and be a breath of fresh air by being a clean cut viable alternative to the raunchy, in your face, over the top, crass persona that has dominated so much of urban music, Brown should rise to the occasion and be a shining example of how one properly atones and handles a troubling situation. He should rise to the occasion and be the poster child of a man who doesn’t beat women. That’ll take some time and deep soul searching that is ‘felt’ by his fans not simply seen and heard.

Right now there are some missing steps in the process Chris Brown is taking as he returns to the spotlight. What those missing steps are, I can’t say… I guess I feel he shouldn’t be in the spotlight right now. Next time I see Brown in public, I don’t wanna see him in a club partying with a bevy of women. I don’t wanna see any more Youtube videos. The one he made where he apologized was suffice.

The Larry King interview? It was a disaster. Brown seemed uncomfortable and not quite ready for primetime. The time to reflect and really deal with what he has done didn’t come across in that interview. He looked more angry than contrite.  I found myself getting upset because his mom was on there sitting next to him crying as she recalled her own abuse. 

Leading up to the interview and now afterwards,  Brown will have to deal withg the realization that he doesn’t control the media and the way things are being manipulated and the way his quotes are being chopped up and taken out of context a particular tone is  and was  set. Many of us came into the  CNN Interview with arms folded and several layers of cynicism.  Sadly Brown’s demenanor reinforced those perceptions. The only one who benefitted was Larry King who probably got a nice ratings boost to catch up up to MSNBC.

I think people are looking for action and no more talk. Brown didn’t just slap or shove Rihanna, he beat her down without mercy. He didn’t do this one time. He did it on 3 different times. Hence I agree with those who are calling for him to chill. Its too soon for him to return.

Maybe Brown should take a full year off, leave the country, or go underground for a bit. Whatever he does he should definitely be out of the headlines and allow himself sometime to grow and better mature. When I see all these appearances it reeks of big business trying to callously repair its image and not of man trying to help himself , the person he victimized and people he disappointed heal.

Personally I’d like to see him embed himself in the lives of young people who really could use a helping hand. I’d like to see him take time and maybe write a book reflecting his time away from the spotlight and showing how he’s grown from this mistake. In any case I wish Brown much luck.. From what I’m seeing and the sense I get I don’t think this Larry King interview helped him much.

something to ponder

-Davey D-

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Chris Brown needs therapy, not media redemption tour

A sorry sight

By Lauren Beckham Falcone

Chris Brown needs to quit his redemption tour.

The 20-year-old r & b singer, arrested for bloodying, beating and biting former girlfriend and pop star Rihanna in February, spent his first week on probation doing the media mea culpa thing, appearing on “Larry King Live” tonight and in People magazine Friday.

But instead of appearing contrite, he comes across as a classic abuser.

In a clip released Monday by CNN, Larry King asks Brown, “Do you remember doing it?”

Brown: “No.”

“You don’t remember doing it?”

“I don’t. I don’t. It’s like crazy to me. I’m like, ‘wow.

Likewise.

Brown, in a matching blue sweater and bow tie ensemble, looks like a toddler on his way to the Sears Portrait Studio – and is about as articulate.

Flanked by his mother, a victim of domestic violence, and celebrity attorney Mark Geragos, who was last seen representing baby-and-wife-killer Scott Peterson, Brown sinks even lower, taking the passive view of the assault that turned him into the Millennial generation’s Ike Turner.

“When I look at it now, it’s just like, wow, like, I can’t – I can’t believe that – that actually happened.”

“That,” by the way, is shorthand for back-seat beatdown.

Meanwhile, Toni Troop, spokeswoman for Jane Doe Inc., the Massachusetts Coalition Against Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence, wasn’t surprised by Brown’s convenient amnesia.

“We have heard all too often the denial, the dismissal, the lack of taking responsibility, the turning the tables, the justification of the outbursts,” she said.

What Brown can’t seem to recall is pretty unforgettable:

“Brown … shoved (Rihanna’s) head against the passenger window of the vehicle … punched her in the left eye,” according to the police report. “(He) … continued to punch her in the face … (causing) her mouth to fill with blood and blood to splatter all over her clothing and the interior of the vehicle. Brown … stated “I am going to beat the (expletive) out of you when we get home … placed her in a head lock … bit her on her left ear … punching her in the face and arms applying pressure to her left and right carotid arteries causing her to be unable to breath … she began to lose consciousness … bit her left ring and middle fingers … continued to punch her on legs and feet.”

By the way, this was the third such incident.

Brown issued a statement yesterday claiming CNN took his words out of context. Too late.

In both the statement and the “Larry King” segment, Brown’s sincerity is like, crazy to me, it’s like, wow.

Brown should take a break from the talk show circuit, get some therapy and return to the spotlight when he has something meaningful – and sincere – to say.

Anything else is just a slap in the face

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Comments

  1. tisk tisk, but common-sence is a word that is foreign today to many, davey…. I always thought it was strange that common took the sence off of commonsence in the mid 90’s to just common, what is common today?

  2. I’m glad the focus is back on Chris Brown being an abusive asshole. I was getting tired of Rihanna basically being blamed for getting in the way of his fist.

    A guy who hits women?

    Perfectly acceptable.

    A woman who dates that type of guy?

    Unacceptable.

    “She’s stupid”

    “what was she thinking?”.

  3. As the victim of a domestic violence incident, Chris Brown’s behavior during and since this happened has been chilling and insulting. My boyfriend touched me ONCE. I made him pack his things, and he moved back home with his mother. Over the next few months he entered an anger management and alcohol treatment program, and worked like hell to better himself and get to the root of his problems. So to see this guy with all his money and resources focus on a media tour to save his career instead of getting help is just disgusting to me. Shame on him.

  4. money can’t buy common sence.

  5. In other words, both those cats got to scraping and Ri received the brunt of it. Separate the two, CB pay for the crimes in general, Ri get herself together, and move on before the rinse/repeat cycle kicks in…

  6. You equate a man hitting a woman with any random fist fight, CDF?

  7. @Gust

    It depends on the circumstances.

  8. Let’s start with this circumstance, CDF. Chris Brown beating Rihanna is nothing different in your mind than two guys knuckling up on a street corner? That’s how you described it earlier.

  9. @Gust

    In that circumstance, my answer is no, it doesn’t equate to male/male fights. That’s stating the obvious! When it comes to male on female violence where the woman has no defense against a man that size, the man gets the punishment. Same ol’ tired, yet sad episode of DV. Maybe, I’m outside the box where I’d like females with some brawn to counter that “rinse/repeat cycle”.

    However, not all women are helpless in that category which is where I stand. There are women who can hold there own, regardless of size. This does not suggest Ri did or didn’t do this, but I guess it’s wishful thinking on my behalf to not picture her like some helpless female laying there taking hits. That’s why I said “both those cats got to scraping and Ri received the brunt of it. ” If she was placed in the right hands, I’m sure we’d be seeing pics of CB as well…

    Nevermind!

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